A Mother’s Tough Love

It’s Mother’s Day today and while most mothers are probably enjoying time with family – or without – one special lady I know is experiencing a completely different kind of Mother’s Day.  I’m featuring her in this post because she deserves, in my eyes, an “Exceptional-Mother-Of-The-Year” award.

A year ago to the day, this friend of mine received on Mother’s Day, news of her second eldest daughter falling 30 feet from an Arizona ridge top. Her daughter survived the fall but was paralyzed from the waist down. Over the past twelve months, I’ve had the privilege of being able to follow social media and video documentation of some of the victories and setbacks experienced by my friend and her daughter.

I’m not going to go into too much detail as their journey – despite being shared amongst friends and family – is private. But there is one aspect of this friend’s parenting that really “wowed” me; she dished out a hefty dose of tough love! Instead of falling at her daughter’s feet and catering to her every need, she nagged her in the same vain that a mother would nag a lazy teenager. In essence, she tossed her daughter’s prognosis out the window and ordered her to start walking!

One year later, my friend’s daughter is still not walking, but she continues to endure difficult rehabilitative sessions, and her progress, though slow, is impressive. Tomorrow marks the anniversary of her accident, and to celebrate (yes, I did say celebrate), they are opening their home up to host a party that they’ve called ——–’s d-day, unbirthday, or yahoo she didn’t die anniversary.

The following is the cover picture posted on the event page:

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Does that not speak volumes about the kind of mother my friend is!

That’s it; no message to pass on! I simply wanted to acknowledge the incredible strength, courage, and love of a friend whose Mother’s Day will never again be the same, and yet if you were to ask her how she feels about that, she’d only be able to tell you how amazing it is.

 

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