Exercise Tips For Mothers With Young Kids

This morning I ran past a daycare centre and felt bad for a young mum who struggled to carry her crying baby in one arm, and an overloaded day-bag in the other; she looked tired and defeated. I remember those days well, and not too fondly either. Exhaustion was something I hated but got used to, and frustration was frequently experienced but more so when exercise couldn’t find its way into my daily schedule.

These days, with my kids both grown, I have the luxury of exercising with fewer restraints. But thinking back to those years, I do remember working with my limitations and finding ways to at least maintain a reasonable level of fitness. If a mother of young kids were to ask me how they could do the same, these would be my key tips:

  • Invest in a running stroller if you enjoy running!
  • Don’t feel that your workout must be completed in one consecutive session; if exercising daily means 3 lots of 10-minute workouts spread throughout the day, then take it! Some movement is always better than no movement.
  • Opt for HIIT (High Intensity Interval Training) workouts. Simply put, that means working at an all-out effort in short bursts, with equally short active-recovery periods in between. You’ll keep your heart rate elevated and burn more fat in less time.
  • Don’t focus on just cardio; strength/resistance training is key to promoting fat loss. An increase in lean muscle mass will assist your body in burning fat much more efficiently. You don’t need to go to a gym to do resistance training; all you need is a couple of light dumbbells and/or a resistance band, or even just your own bodyweight. There are plenty of at-home workouts available online that are under 30 minutes and require minimal equipment.

The last, and most important thing I would say, is that there is no greater feeling than the love a mother has for her children. So while lack of time and exercise might be a major source of frustration, realize that there is a time and season for everything and these years will pass so quickly that you’ll wish you could take them back.

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Are You That Mum Who Never Stops Or Slows Down?

Several years ago I recall setting out on an early morning run and being startled by a car that swiped the footpath a few feet ahead of me. I was further surprised when the hubcap bounced off on to the road and the driver carried on without stopping to retrieve it. It made me think of mothers, including myself, who often race through each day determined to conquer an impossibly long to-do-list, and in the process unknowingly lose a “part” of themselves.

By “part,” I mean any “thing” that contributes towards overall physical, mental, and spiritual wellbeing. How often for example, do we intentionally set aside time to rest and relax, get out for some fun, or take a few moments each day to talk and laugh? And what about diet and exercise; are these a priority, or do they get pushed to the wayside in favour of other “mum duties?”

Like the driver who kept driving without a hubcap, we tend to do the same. We keep going, ignorant of cues that try to warn us of our bodies needing a break. And yet, despite our noble efforts to be the best mums we can be, we’d be doing everyone (ourselves and kids especially), a huge favour if we stopped to do a “parts” check every once in a while.

Take some time this Mother’s Day to sit back and enjoy the pampering. And be selfish for a change; spend the day doing whatever it is that you want to do!

Wishing you all a restful and happy mother’s day.

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